Married Swinger (single male)

Since Monday things have been quiet but tonight was an improvement! Another local couple contact me and I was able to join them for a nice meal and a chat. D and S were really nice and friendly people who seem to be on my wavelength. They wanna laugh as mcuh as wanna have sex. She is a real sexy middle aged lady and was very keen to flash her fanny at me as often as I would look while we were in the pub! It was a lovely shaved one and several times she dipped her fingers in and let me lick them clean from across the table. Toward the end of the meal I swapped places with hubby and sat next to her. Needless to say it was my fingers that dried out our rude dip next and she was soooo very wet!
Once the meal was over it was out to the cars and a quick convoy trip to a layby. Here I was allowed to lick her tits while her husband gave her a quick shag. I was going to eat her afterwards but they needed to get back so I hope we will meet another time to do all the great stuff we didn't fit in tonight.
Tomorrow I finish at 1 pm at work and will be meeting a single lady (C) for a lunchtime meet. Again it is a first meet so I don't expect it will go much beyond a chat and hopefully a snog.
A longer answer to the one comment I have had on this blog so far is:
During the years I have been swapping I have met up with a range of people of very different ages. The youngest was only last year and she is best described as an aspiring sex maniac! Her body was gorgous and thin and firm but she was awkward and struggled to do her bit when she found herself with a cock in both holes. I declined anal as I felt hubby was best at this and enjoyed her tight fanny.
I will say this experience has taught me that the best fun is with the over 40s! Indeed the ladies over 50 that I have enjoyed are so much better at everything! They know not only how to enjoy themselves but how to make it special for you! I also think older women taste better when you give them oral! lol.
Another thing I feel obligated to do is to say that I ALWAYS use a condom and never will allow things to be done different. I have been pressured by couples to go 'bareback' but I am not going there and will walk away from a great fuck rather than risk illness. Gentlemen and Ladies, If you wanna play like me then play safe! No fuck is worth your life!!
For the record I have also not had a single sexual problem or need to visit a clinic.
Also for any male thinking about trying a bit of swinging I would say be prepared for a lot of hassle. Couples don't just pick a new guy every night. They take their time and want you to offer them something special. If your cock ain't big (mine isn't) then it has to be the ability to laugh! It won't matter how good you are in bed, they only have your word for that. Be patient and be nice. One angry remark and they will go.
To those couples who love to sit in judgement on single males can I urge you to be kinder. I know you think your doing us a favour and in the main you are but without us your fun will turn to frustration cos there isn't enough couples to go round. Most of the couples I have played with have not gone away saying 'what a lucky guy!' they have been more inclined to say 'that was so much fun!'

Now that was a good start to the week! Nearly two hours of uninhibited lust and fun!
The great thing about swingers is once you know them they don't waste hours the next time you meet!
I met L with her husband two years ago and had a wild time while hubby watched. He joined in a little but wanted to watch more! Since then I've met L while hubby is out. She tells me he prefers to hear what she was doing when he gets home. She normally tells him while they are making love, guess it takes all sorts!
Anyway I turned up and she let me in. She was wearing jeans and a baggy jumper. It's never like the cliché where she is in undies and waiting at the door - lol.
Once inside and the door was shut she hugged me and we kissed while I pulled up her top. L is not thin but she is curvy, very curvy and her breasts defy gravity well for a lady in her mid 40s. Her nipples are so small for such big breasts but they are delightfully pointy and I love licking them into sharp points.
She let me enjoy a few seconds then we went upstairs to the spare room. They keep their own bedroom as their private sanctuary. The spare room is a little untidy but has plenty of room and a drawer full of sex toys! I did note the toys were already out and she admitted she'd started without me. I responded by undoing her jeans and finding she was commando underneath. She stepped out of the jeans as I playfully spanked her for being so greedy! As a double punishment I told her she had to stand there while I played with her. This wasn't much of a punishment as she loves being made to come this way.
After she had finally lost her balanced and lay cumming still on the bed, I quickly got naked and let her enjoy eating me as I knelt over her.
I am deeply blessed to be able to cum 7 or 8 times each night. This does have a downside in that my first cum is often a matter of seconds. My third onwards can take ages! L knows this and likes to deal with the first one fast. Sparing nothing she soon had me squirting down her throat.
With that out of the way I returned to gently playing with her fanny. Gentle strokes and kisses for a long while. Then when she was laying back en oying with her eyes shut I was able to get a butt plug. Still eating her lifted her Bum up and smoothly slipped the plug in place. The quick shock made her sit up and then she started laughing as I started making love to her. Inside her I could feel the plug rubbing through her thin wall and against my head. It was so sexu and she so loved it. We soon came again both of us gasping for air.
The rest was more normal but the last session was a long and wonderful fuck in a lovely side on position. I lay under the arch of her legs thrusting long and hard til we both were totally satisfied. A fantastic night ty my darling L xxxx.

Another day and another lunchtime txtsex session with C. She is horny as hell and claims she is playing with herself in her car on the company car park. I rang her briefly just after she claimed she had come. She was out of breath and when challenged put the phone between her legs and made some convincingly wet sounding noises. Made me feel so damn randy. I can't wait to meet her, she is such a sexy women. Great news is the first meet is Friday lunchtime and if all is good it will be onto her fav layby for a bit of the real thing.
If you are wondering, dear reader, I finish early on a Friday and C lives on the route home.
Prior to C I have used my Friday afternoon for many quick meets. Its a great time for a bit of dogging although the police have made it more difficult in some of the better known spots. However, they obviously don't yet know my fav as I have never seen the police there!
Wow! Even as I write L, another lady, has contacted me and wants a bit of love! OK, I am off to make her cum and enjoy! (always my priority is for the lady to cum then me!).
Mmmmmm can't wait - hope to report later!

So what have been the highlights so far?
Well, the best times have been when I have been able to help others live out their fantasies. The funniest was a gentlemen who contacted me asking if I would help out with his wifes fantasy of being made love too by a man she never even sees. This was done by me turning up to a hotel room (number sent to me by text). I had to text to get in as the hubby didn't want wife to know when I had arrived. I found her naked on the bed with a blindfold on and as quietly as possible got naked myself.
I proceeded to eat her until she came then was allowed to make love to her till I was satisfied. After a short break I knelt over her face and pushed my willie against her lips. She willingly opened and ate me till I was hard and ready for more. Slipping down her and with the help of her hubby we soundlessly turned her over and got her into the doggy position where we took it in turns to thrust inside her. Each time I got close to cumming I would stop and hubby took over. We carried on like this for ages before he came inside her and I got her to finish me off.
It was a wonderful time but the whole thing was done in near complete silence and had to leave before she took off the blindfold. Hubby later contacted me saying it was fantastic and she was still horny days after our time together!

Hi,

I have decided to start a blog on my life as a swinger. I don't know how many swingers already do this and if anyone will ever read this but just felt I had stuff to tell and views to share so thought I'd put them out on here!
I am a 47 year old who is 5' 8" tall, weighs around 13 stone and has black hair and brown eyes. I won't be putting any pics on here as I don't wish to be easily identified. I am married to a lovely lady who sadly has been seriously ill and as a result has not been sexually active for over 12 years! After 6 years without any sex I began to struggle and it was agreed that I could seek satisfaction elsewhere but she doesn't want to know about what I do.
At first I struggled to make any headway in resolving this problem but then came the internet! Once this wonderful world opened up I soon discovered 'dogging'. For those not in the know this is also known as car park sex. Basically, couples drive to car parks and perform for onlookers. The car parks are generally not in towns and the meets are normally late at night. After several adventures I was lucky enough to meet one couple on a very quiet night. It was just me and them. Over the course of two hours they gave me a full on sex show then she gave me the most erotic blow job before they invited me to have my first ever experience of double penetration. This fantastic act was conducted standing up and thankfully a she was held by her husband while I filled her back passage and he filled her front! (it was a good thing he held her as I am not as strong and most likely would of dropped her). At the end we all sat cuddlign in their car and to my amazement they gave me their personal details and asked me to meet them again.
I was amazed because so many couples would never tell you any of this. It seems that single males are just there to be used and discarded! I can't believe this attitude as most times one off sex is a bit of a poor substitute for regular meets. After 3 or so meets I learn those little things that make the lady in question come so much more and so much harder! Some ladies like to be treated rough others prefer soft and loving. How do you tell if its a one night stand? I do my best but don't think I always get it right.
Anyway, for the next two years I met B and A on a regular basis. We had 3somes, 4somes (with a Bi lady friend of theirs) and went to a few parties/orgies. Sadly this ended in 2004 when they announced that they were moving to the USA due to job changes. We stay in touch and have met 3 times since.
On my own again I turned to a web site called 'Melanies'. This was a great site when I joined but had a number of people on there who were a bit 'strange'. They seemed to feel that single men were a curse and that married ones were worse! I will discuss this another day or this entry will end up being a book. Over the next 3 years I meet some lovely people and did some fun and crazy things but the site became more and more dominated by these 'deluded' couples. Finally a few weeks ago I closed my account and started looking for somewhere new.
Last week I joined 'fabswingers' and I am so pleased with my first week as a member especially as it is a free site!! On Sunday last week I replied to about 15 profiles. On 'Mels' this would probably get one response within the next week. On 'fab' I had a total of 5 replies of which 2 were very polite 'no thanks'for the reason that I am a married single male. I will discuss this more another time - you know I will
Another young lady turned me down because I had copied and pasted my reply! Good grief!! How does anyone get upset about a bit of copy and pasting. I suppose it means my sexual technique will be a copy and paste as well!! Come on!!!!! Her reply read like a school teachers marking of an essay and clearly I was guilty of plagerism (sorry that may be mis-spelt). Again I will maybe discuss this more another time.
The remaining two replies were the opposite. On Monday I had a bit of text sex with a married single lady called C who made me horny but also made me laugh (much more important) and on Friday afternoon we met for a drink that turned into a full layby sex session! On Tuesday S and J replied and we had a brief chat on my mobile. This led to a mind-blowing threesome on Wednesday night! Another time I will give more details but she (S) was a real sex maniac and couldn't get enough even with 2 men. We are now talking about getting another couple to join us cos (S) is bi.
Anyway, I hope you like this first entry and that I might be making many more with or for you! lol.