Hi,

I have decided to start a blog on my life as a swinger. I don't know how many swingers already do this and if anyone will ever read this but just felt I had stuff to tell and views to share so thought I'd put them out on here!
I am a 47 year old who is 5' 8" tall, weighs around 13 stone and has black hair and brown eyes. I won't be putting any pics on here as I don't wish to be easily identified. I am married to a lovely lady who sadly has been seriously ill and as a result has not been sexually active for over 12 years! After 6 years without any sex I began to struggle and it was agreed that I could seek satisfaction elsewhere but she doesn't want to know about what I do.
At first I struggled to make any headway in resolving this problem but then came the internet! Once this wonderful world opened up I soon discovered 'dogging'. For those not in the know this is also known as car park sex. Basically, couples drive to car parks and perform for onlookers. The car parks are generally not in towns and the meets are normally late at night. After several adventures I was lucky enough to meet one couple on a very quiet night. It was just me and them. Over the course of two hours they gave me a full on sex show then she gave me the most erotic blow job before they invited me to have my first ever experience of double penetration. This fantastic act was conducted standing up and thankfully a she was held by her husband while I filled her back passage and he filled her front! (it was a good thing he held her as I am not as strong and most likely would of dropped her). At the end we all sat cuddlign in their car and to my amazement they gave me their personal details and asked me to meet them again.
I was amazed because so many couples would never tell you any of this. It seems that single males are just there to be used and discarded! I can't believe this attitude as most times one off sex is a bit of a poor substitute for regular meets. After 3 or so meets I learn those little things that make the lady in question come so much more and so much harder! Some ladies like to be treated rough others prefer soft and loving. How do you tell if its a one night stand? I do my best but don't think I always get it right.
Anyway, for the next two years I met B and A on a regular basis. We had 3somes, 4somes (with a Bi lady friend of theirs) and went to a few parties/orgies. Sadly this ended in 2004 when they announced that they were moving to the USA due to job changes. We stay in touch and have met 3 times since.
On my own again I turned to a web site called 'Melanies'. This was a great site when I joined but had a number of people on there who were a bit 'strange'. They seemed to feel that single men were a curse and that married ones were worse! I will discuss this another day or this entry will end up being a book. Over the next 3 years I meet some lovely people and did some fun and crazy things but the site became more and more dominated by these 'deluded' couples. Finally a few weeks ago I closed my account and started looking for somewhere new.
Last week I joined 'fabswingers' and I am so pleased with my first week as a member especially as it is a free site!! On Sunday last week I replied to about 15 profiles. On 'Mels' this would probably get one response within the next week. On 'fab' I had a total of 5 replies of which 2 were very polite 'no thanks'for the reason that I am a married single male. I will discuss this more another time - you know I will :)
Another young lady turned me down because I had copied and pasted my reply! Good grief!! How does anyone get upset about a bit of copy and pasting. I suppose it means my sexual technique will be a copy and paste as well!! Come on!!!!! Her reply read like a school teachers marking of an essay and clearly I was guilty of plagerism (sorry that may be mis-spelt). Again I will maybe discuss this more another time.
The remaining two replies were the opposite. On Monday I had a bit of text sex with a married single lady called C who made me horny but also made me laugh (much more important) and on Friday afternoon we met for a drink that turned into a full layby sex session! On Tuesday S and J replied and we had a brief chat on my mobile. This led to a mind-blowing threesome on Wednesday night! Another time I will give more details but she (S) was a real sex maniac and couldn't get enough even with 2 men. We are now talking about getting another couple to join us cos (S) is bi.
Anyway, I hope you like this first entry and that I might be making many more with or for you! lol.