Married Swinger (single male)

Sorry folks for the silence but I am currently flu ridden and won't be blogging till I am better!! Back soon!!

Friday and Saturday have been ordinary so not much to say there.
I spent a lot of today looking back on my long time with A and B. They were a lovely and loving couple. Easily one of the best on the scene and totally without the hang-ups I find in all to many so called 'swinging' couples. It is amazing how many couples declare themselves as looking for fun and end up being soooooooo hung up they can't even laugh! If you wanna do this stuff at least enjoy it!! lol. To those I am hanging with now please understand I don't go back for seconds with such couples. You guys are all as free and fun loving as A and B.
Wow, the stuff we did! Lmao, we went from water-pistol fights all the way through to the type of loving that makes you hard just remembering it! We made love in cars, trains, a shopping mall (!) and loads of hotel rooms. I met A on a 1 to 1 basis several times but also went to about 10 orgies with them both. I watched A take 3 men and a women in one single sex act (as always please note Safe Sex was used).
In all a wonderful set of memories and ones I may write more about in the future! For now it is nearly the sexless Xmas holidays so I will need those memories and the others of all my new friends!
Goodnight!
Oh by the way to show I am a bit normal - Did that talentless twit called Leon really win X Factor?!! lol lol lol. The moron only ever completed one song without singing out of tune but hey at least it proves it's live. He he he watch him fade and die.

What a wonderful night it was last night.
OK no one joined us but the loving was so slow and sweet that C and I needed no one else. Given that this was our last meet till new year it was lovely to spend the evening making love rather than fucking!
Is there a difference? You bet there is! Fucking is wild and lust filled with little or no romance just animal passion and a certain level of selfishness. I wanna make the lady cum but also wanna take as much pleasure as I can get! Making love is gentle and less hurried. It involves a selfless drive to make your partner wanna explode with joy and happiness even if you don't get to enjoy yourself to the full.
I don't think in the entire evening there wasn't one of us trying to pleasure the other.
In the end the most wonderful thing was that she stayed the night and we were able to wake in the morning and fuck (yes it was a fuck) one last time!
A perfect end to our month together but before anyone starts writing the 'happy ever afters' we are nto an item and we arn't in love. She has already said she wants to move onto meet other guys and we both have agreed this is only gonna last a few months as we are not totally compatible. She is a real fussy number and I'm not bothered if a few clothes get messed up or end up in a pile! lol

Well Tuesday and Wednesday nights have been blow outs with no sex on offer. I am a little dissappointed with the lack of contact with peoples but it is the way it is.
As I said before the next month is looking dull and sexless but I guess I will just have to try and enjoy other things. From 1994 to 1999 I had no sex at all, so this will be a lot easier. I guess!
The reason for that 5 year gap was my wife became seriously ill and took 2 years to recover. Altho she is 95% recovered sadly she never regained her sex-drive and decided, a little harshly, that my sex-drive was my problem! I tried to force the issue but having kids I felt I could not take the ultimate action and walk away. In 1999 I couldn't take it anymore and turned to swinging for my answers.
At home things are the same and she has no plans to ever change. However, the kids are now nearing the age when they will fly the nest. I am not fully decided yet but most likely I will leave with them and seek to make a new life. If I do then my swinging will stop and I will look to return to a single partner relationship. But for now its swinging or the horror of a sexless life.

I am sorry my darling C but I really have been busy but here, right now (!) lol, is my Monday night report.
Monday was soooo much fun. I loved sneaking into reception and waiting for you to come and get me. I was so randy but you know that - lmao. After a few minutes there you were and in I slipped, well into the building I slipped!
I loved chasing you up the stairs and into your office and loved it when you sat on your desk legs wide open to reveal a lack of panties. I am sorry for the lack of foreplay but I needed to be inside you and loved fucking you with my clothes still on (OK my trousers were flopped round my ankles). It was short and sharp and lust filled but it was one hell of a quickie.
After our short chat I loved fucking you sat on your work chair. It was such a lovely long screw and so different from the frantic first fuck. I loved the way we screwed in slow motion. Ty also for stripping off your top as we gently loved our way to oneness. I love your tits and they did a great job of keeping my mind off the sweet tinglings and throbbings as we slowly got more and more excited. Wow did we screw slow and long!! I thought I was never gonna cum but finally we lost it and thrashed our way to such a mutual orgasm.
It was very naughty making me spill some of my condom on your chair, on the wet patch we left behind. It was very erotic thinking we mixed our bodily fluids even if it was in such a safe way! lol.
Just when I thought there wasn't gonna be time for more you told me about the lift! Oh how you knew I want to fuck there. I think it was very bad of you not telling me there was a lift till it was almost time to go. Yes, the fuck as we went up and down and up and down in the lift was everything I have ever dreamed it might be! Anyone reading this - find a lift and take your fuck-buddy there!! It is so magic.
Sadly that was all we had time for but I can't wait for the next one!!

I don't have much time so very quickly - My trip to be with C was fantastic and very very gooood! TY darling!! Will report better when I have the time but we fitted so much sex into such a short time!

OK so to prove my life is not all sex, sex, sex today has been shops, shops and shops.
Nothing remotely sexy happened all day and I returned home sorta content that today was a day off the fun that is swinging. The only note worthy news is that a couple, K and P, want a sex filled evening next Thursday (they were from one of the sites I tried yesterday) and C is available for a meet in the evening at her company!!??
Seems she works late some Monday's and is normally the only one in her building (she is in advertising, not sure if that explains it!?). So the plan is I will drive there for 7 ish and we get to play in her office. To repeat I am always out late on a Monday as for private reasons I don't go home till 9.30 pm. This means we will have nearly 2 hours to play!
Tuesday night I am away and currently don't have any plans - if you do have a suggestion please contact me here! XX
Late extra piece of news - Thursday 20th now has a whole evening with C, she is gonna be meeting me at my hotel and has asked if I could set up a lady-friend to play with us! I will be contacting a few of my bi-female friends but if any single bi-ladies wanna contact me you might get the gig - C is very playful and adventurous. she never backs out on anything so will give it a go for sure! X

Well that was a good day!
I have found two more sites and made contact with two new couples and a lovely lady! I am so in love with the net, it makes this so much easier!
Both couples shared some stories and one even put on a nice show on their webcam!! I am always amazed how just by being honest and not pushing people can actually have such better results than trying too hard to get what you want. My secret, if it can be called that, is I don't go straight for endless chat about fucking! lol. Rather we swap stories about ordinary stuff and I only ever start the more sexy chat when they initiate it. The couple on the web-cam offered and even wanted to show off. I never asked once!! honest!!!
My latest lovely lady is a sexy 42 year old who loved my blog and isn't at all worried about me not being 'exclusive' to her. She sagely observed that no one on here is going to be exclusive unless they first have found something so wonderful its worth it. For the record, if I did find a lady I was so happy with I would go exclusive and most deff would leave my marriage for her but I don't mind if it doesn't happen. We got on so well that we have agreed to meet next week.
I am not sure if my circumstances are fully documented on here. I work 75 miles away from home and to reduce my travel expenses I stay away two nights a week. My new lady lives very close to where I stay so we may become regular fuck-buddies if we click. I hope so cos her pic is one sexy number!

Damn it! I hate weekends!! Here I am stuck at home with no excuse to get out and have some fun.
Still thankfully the wife is working and I can start trying to find some fun for next week. Unusually I don't have anything deffinate planned for next week or the week after. It always get more difficult to find swingers as the holidays approach. The last few years I have been successful but back in 2004 I went a whole month without any fun. That made me a very sad santa but I raised my game for the sake of the family.
Am now looking for additional websites to make contacts on as the latest one seems a little limited. If anyone out there has any recommendations I'd love to hear them. I don't normally use paysites but if lots of people recommend one I would give it a try.
Anyway off to do some more fishing.

C you are one sexy and wonderful lover! I am sat here feeling as satisfied as I had been after my foursome on Tuesday! XXXX
Today we met at a open Garden where we went for a walk in the cold. There was only one other car there and we never saw those people in our trip. Part of the garden was a dense wood and we went away from the path and allowed nature to hide our naughtiness!
She gave me the most slow and loving bj I have ever had stood in the middle of a load of trees! Toward the end I was leaning and holding onto a tree as I gasped for breath while she licked and sucked and ate me!
Afterward she allowed me to remove her panties and take her doggy fashion. It was a much quicker affair as it was relatively cold, lol!
After this we went back to the car and found a layby for a nice long cuddle. Just before we left I dropped the used condoms into a bin. On the lid of the bin was a dogging message from a couple who had left the message for everyone who wanted to join in a meet last Saturday. Under the add was the sad words, 'No one turned up!'
Why did they do this? I would of bet they wouldn't get anyone cos its just so unlikely that a dogger would find the message. Come on couples use the bloody net and get to know us! You can get us interested and check we're not nutters and still have the excitement of a complete stranger fucking you when you get there. I have never let anyone down when they invite me but this just leaving a message is bound to fail.
I was sad for the couple and felt cheated cos had I known I would have been there!

Two nights ago I was feeling down and lonely then one text changed it all. The text simply said 'we r in the $#*$@ please cum and fuck us!'
What could I do? Out I went to the car park and found the car from the text. Inside were 3 sexy ladys. One opened the window and asked if they could cum in for a shag. Not before one of the others had flashed her tits at me as she got out.
Back in my room I soon found myself being used in every way. Sucking and fucking at the same time while the spare lady was lapping at my cock and K's fanny as we fucked. She was back and forth eating cunt and cock then cock and anus.
Later the ladies all went doggy and I fucked one while finger fucking the others on my left and right. It was even better when they joined in and wanked along with my hands. It was real tough to keep both hands and my cock co-ordinated but made me last for ages!
As I recovered I was able to watch a sexy show of lesbian lust that soon had me wanting to join in!
The next course was a competition for the ladies to give me the best bj. Each had a minute to eat me then they had to let the next lady have her turn. Each break allowed me to calm a bit before the next delightful mouth engulfed me!
The climaxes were so damn good that I am still smiling 2 days later!
Tomorrow it is back to C and just the one body to play with! We r gonna be introducing her to outdoor frolics. A cold wet December day is an excellent time to start. Most people will be warm in their home or cars but we will be out in the cold but making ourselves very very hot!
More on that tomorrow.

To all hoping to read about last night I will say sorry but has been a busy evening so no time for reports tonight!

How quickly things can change!
Seems A took pity on me and arranged a treat for me!
Just after recording my last blog entry I got an unexpected text saying someone was in a car outside and they wondered if they could pop in. I rushed out and found the car inside was J, S and another lady who turned out to be K! Wow have these three ladies kept me happy!! A you are a sweet lass and I wish ya fit soon! Xxxxx

Well my invite failed to find anyone so here I am feeling bored and a little uncomfortable.
The discomfort is due to me being in a hotel where I had one of my worst ever experiences. I met a couple here and the lady wanted to try anal but hubby had never fancied it. When asked if he would mind he enthusiastically gave his permission. I then lubbed her up and she got fairly excited by just this attention. I made sure she was extra greasy cos I didn't wanna hurt her and put her off forever.
Finally I pushed deep inside her back passage and slowly and gently began to fuck her. Within seconds she was cumming more than at any point all evening. She was literally crying out with orgasms when all of a sudden hubby launched himself at me and sent me flying into a nearby wall.
After a bit of uninteligable shouting it became clear he thought I was hurting her! She was laying on the bed panting so much that she could not tell him the truth.
Raging he grabbed me and was about to start a real fight when she was able to horsely yell the truth at him. Thank fuck he heard her and stopped. After a brief pause he pushed me on the bed and yelled some more nonsense before getting dressed and storming off. She wanted to carry on fucking but I wasn't up for it and told her she should go after her hubby.
A bit later I was slightly more amused when they had a blazing row on the car park. It was clear for all to hear that they we're fighting over him not giving her one up the arse! Lol.

Just checked the blog to see if anyone is reading this and there appears to be a fair number of you but I have only had one comment! I am happy to answer questions and discuss stuff so please feel free to leave me any comments. Otherwise I will just bore you all to tears with my stories from swinging in years gone by!
U have been warned!!

I hate it when plans go wrong!
My treat for tomorrow night has turned into a let down. I know it's not their fault but A is down with a nasty cold, life can be so harsh xxx I hope you get better soon sweet women xxxx
That leaves me trapped in a hotel in #$%&^@*$#! with nothing to look forward too! If any sexy ladies or couples are reading this and want to share my room for some fun tomorrow night leave a comment on here! That is tomorrow, Tuesday evening (4th Dec)!!
Otherwise I'll content myself and write a nice long entry on here! lol.
No No No, it's nearly Christmas! Does anyone do any dogging over Xmas week? I have tried to find fun several years now and ended up eating mince pies on my own - sob sob!

Just a quick extra note! I have 2 more single ladies looking for fun and I hope we can have some!! Ladies you know the drill on here I will never use names but I will use an initial. I am realy excited to be finding so many new friends via the new site (see entry 1).
Hope we all have a great time!
X

Well its nearly the end of another boring weekend.
It seems so unfair that all those sexy couples are out there having their best time while I am stuck and unable to play! Still here comes the week again and at least my playtime is 5 days long and theirs is only 2 or 3 nights long he he he
So next week looks good. I am meeting another couple on Tuesday. A and L are one of regular meets. We have been meeting on and off for 18 months and always seem to find something new to do! They have been teasing me by text during last week, telling me something different is gonna happen! But What!!??
On Thursday I will be back with C from Friday and this time we have the evening. Plus on friday she wants to try fucking in my car. Sorry guys but she doesn't want to do any dogging......yet!! mmmmmmmm!?

Wow what a Friday afternoon!!
C was a lady I met on a dating site and we've chatted a few times and exchanged txts. She spoke to me once on the phone and in all she was very prim and proper. I have not hidden my swinging lifestyle from her and she had expressed mild interest.
We met in a small pub/resteraunt and chatted for an hour. She told me about her first marriage and how he was a bully and sex was nothing more than 'wham bam and done'. She even went as far to as to admit she has never given or received oral sex! She is 41 and has been divorced for 2 years. In those 2 years she hasn't had any sex. C is an curvy gorgous lady who fits a size 16 and looks more like a 12! She had allowed a very ample cleavage to distract me but I felt I was doing a good job of not looking too much! lol
With meal done we walked back to our cars and she suggested a coffee back at her flat. My hopes got a bit higher but I tried not to get too excited cos she was clearly still recovering.
We got to her flat and she started asking what it was like to go dogging. I am not that proud of dogging as it is very seedy but needs must sometimes. I told her how the ladies always shock me with just how much cock they want. I have seen a few ladies take on as many as 20 men in one evening (it was about 2 hours!!). I assured her I always go for either a wank or safe sex when I am dogging as they are fairly low risk. She was making me a coffee while I told her this. Sitting down next to me she asked about the couples and was genuinely shocked when I told her about double penetration! She wasn't shocked I did it, she was shocked that anyone could and even said she didn't believe it was possible, he he he. Here the internet helped. She had wi fi set up and a laptop so I asked if she would mind me logging onto a porn site. She was a little uncomfortable but I assured her it was fairly safe and she agreed.
Youporn is a free site that has all the content Utube doesn't allow. They have a fair few films of double penetration and she was soon watching a threesome at its very best!
By now my hand was between her legs and her skirt was hitched right up. I guess I wasn't that surprised to find her panties were soaking. The clip ended and she put the laptop down and calmly said, 'I want you to fuck me and I want you to use my vib as the other guy!'
Seconds later we were on her bed and naked. Before she could say anything I made sure she was no longer an oral virgin! Boy, did I eat her. I am a bit of an oral fanatic at the best of times but this time I was even more frenzied. I made her cum so loudly she had to stiffle her moaning with a pillow!
After a few minutes of cuddling she demanded that I tell her about some of my double penetration adventures. She loved my first one and soon had her vibrator out! It was a nice little vibrator so I decided it would work without lub, esp as she didn't have any. I got her to sit on my cock but face away from me and as she rode me I used the vibrator to toy with her anus. As her juices flowed more and more I was able to get the vib wetter and risked pushing it inside that rear passage! she loved it and was panting so hard that I thought she'd do herself a mischief. When she came her fanny pulsed all over my shaft, I love that
Sadly that was time for me to go but I promised her I would come back and do so much more to make her happy. Guys you know I will!! I think there is real hope that this lady is a nymph just waiting for the right guy to set her sex life on fire. I soooo hope I am the lucky guy who gets to set her free!
Again I would stress all the above was done using a condom. The sex was fantastic and part of it was that the condom meant I didn't have to worry sooo much (I know there is always a risk). Oh and by the way the ladies need never worry about the other possible outcome of sex as I am an official blank shooter! lol.