Well Tuesday and Wednesday nights have been blow outs with no sex on offer. I am a little dissappointed with the lack of contact with peoples but it is the way it is.
As I said before the next month is looking dull and sexless but I guess I will just have to try and enjoy other things. From 1994 to 1999 I had no sex at all, so this will be a lot easier. I guess!
The reason for that 5 year gap was my wife became seriously ill and took 2 years to recover. Altho she is 95% recovered sadly she never regained her sex-drive and decided, a little harshly, that my sex-drive was my problem! I tried to force the issue but having kids I felt I could not take the ultimate action and walk away. In 1999 I couldn't take it anymore and turned to swinging for my answers.
At home things are the same and she has no plans to ever change. However, the kids are now nearing the age when they will fly the nest. I am not fully decided yet but most likely I will leave with them and seek to make a new life. If I do then my swinging will stop and I will look to return to a single partner relationship. But for now its swinging or the horror of a sexless life.