Married Swinger (single male)

This is just a quick entry to say I am back and will be writing more sooon - very soon!! lol
I think my first entry will be about a couple I am currently half way through having a threesome with as I write this entry on my pda! They are currently putting on a show that is fantastic with her on top. Mmmmmmmmmmmm well anally on top and fingering herself in the fanny as he rides her arse. Damn!! Sorry I gotta go she needs a cock in the vacant hole (mouth or fanny - I don't know but am gonna find out - lol).

Back soooon!

Sorry folks for the silence but I am currently flu ridden and won't be blogging till I am better!! Back soon!!

Friday and Saturday have been ordinary so not much to say there.
I spent a lot of today looking back on my long time with A and B. They were a lovely and loving couple. Easily one of the best on the scene and totally without the hang-ups I find in all to many so called 'swinging' couples. It is amazing how many couples declare themselves as looking for fun and end up being soooooooo hung up they can't even laugh! If you wanna do this stuff at least enjoy it!! lol. To those I am hanging with now please understand I don't go back for seconds with such couples. You guys are all as free and fun loving as A and B.
Wow, the stuff we did! Lmao, we went from water-pistol fights all the way through to the type of loving that makes you hard just remembering it! We made love in cars, trains, a shopping mall (!) and loads of hotel rooms. I met A on a 1 to 1 basis several times but also went to about 10 orgies with them both. I watched A take 3 men and a women in one single sex act (as always please note Safe Sex was used).
In all a wonderful set of memories and ones I may write more about in the future! For now it is nearly the sexless Xmas holidays so I will need those memories and the others of all my new friends!
Goodnight!
Oh by the way to show I am a bit normal - Did that talentless twit called Leon really win X Factor?!! lol lol lol. The moron only ever completed one song without singing out of tune but hey at least it proves it's live. He he he watch him fade and die.

What a wonderful night it was last night.
OK no one joined us but the loving was so slow and sweet that C and I needed no one else. Given that this was our last meet till new year it was lovely to spend the evening making love rather than fucking!
Is there a difference? You bet there is! Fucking is wild and lust filled with little or no romance just animal passion and a certain level of selfishness. I wanna make the lady cum but also wanna take as much pleasure as I can get! Making love is gentle and less hurried. It involves a selfless drive to make your partner wanna explode with joy and happiness even if you don't get to enjoy yourself to the full.
I don't think in the entire evening there wasn't one of us trying to pleasure the other.
In the end the most wonderful thing was that she stayed the night and we were able to wake in the morning and fuck (yes it was a fuck) one last time!
A perfect end to our month together but before anyone starts writing the 'happy ever afters' we are nto an item and we arn't in love. She has already said she wants to move onto meet other guys and we both have agreed this is only gonna last a few months as we are not totally compatible. She is a real fussy number and I'm not bothered if a few clothes get messed up or end up in a pile! lol

Well Tuesday and Wednesday nights have been blow outs with no sex on offer. I am a little dissappointed with the lack of contact with peoples but it is the way it is.
As I said before the next month is looking dull and sexless but I guess I will just have to try and enjoy other things. From 1994 to 1999 I had no sex at all, so this will be a lot easier. I guess!
The reason for that 5 year gap was my wife became seriously ill and took 2 years to recover. Altho she is 95% recovered sadly she never regained her sex-drive and decided, a little harshly, that my sex-drive was my problem! I tried to force the issue but having kids I felt I could not take the ultimate action and walk away. In 1999 I couldn't take it anymore and turned to swinging for my answers.
At home things are the same and she has no plans to ever change. However, the kids are now nearing the age when they will fly the nest. I am not fully decided yet but most likely I will leave with them and seek to make a new life. If I do then my swinging will stop and I will look to return to a single partner relationship. But for now its swinging or the horror of a sexless life.

I am sorry my darling C but I really have been busy but here, right now (!) lol, is my Monday night report.
Monday was soooo much fun. I loved sneaking into reception and waiting for you to come and get me. I was so randy but you know that - lmao. After a few minutes there you were and in I slipped, well into the building I slipped!
I loved chasing you up the stairs and into your office and loved it when you sat on your desk legs wide open to reveal a lack of panties. I am sorry for the lack of foreplay but I needed to be inside you and loved fucking you with my clothes still on (OK my trousers were flopped round my ankles). It was short and sharp and lust filled but it was one hell of a quickie.
After our short chat I loved fucking you sat on your work chair. It was such a lovely long screw and so different from the frantic first fuck. I loved the way we screwed in slow motion. Ty also for stripping off your top as we gently loved our way to oneness. I love your tits and they did a great job of keeping my mind off the sweet tinglings and throbbings as we slowly got more and more excited. Wow did we screw slow and long!! I thought I was never gonna cum but finally we lost it and thrashed our way to such a mutual orgasm.
It was very naughty making me spill some of my condom on your chair, on the wet patch we left behind. It was very erotic thinking we mixed our bodily fluids even if it was in such a safe way! lol.
Just when I thought there wasn't gonna be time for more you told me about the lift! Oh how you knew I want to fuck there. I think it was very bad of you not telling me there was a lift till it was almost time to go. Yes, the fuck as we went up and down and up and down in the lift was everything I have ever dreamed it might be! Anyone reading this - find a lift and take your fuck-buddy there!! It is so magic.
Sadly that was all we had time for but I can't wait for the next one!!

I don't have much time so very quickly - My trip to be with C was fantastic and very very gooood! TY darling!! Will report better when I have the time but we fitted so much sex into such a short time!

OK so to prove my life is not all sex, sex, sex today has been shops, shops and shops.
Nothing remotely sexy happened all day and I returned home sorta content that today was a day off the fun that is swinging. The only note worthy news is that a couple, K and P, want a sex filled evening next Thursday (they were from one of the sites I tried yesterday) and C is available for a meet in the evening at her company!!??
Seems she works late some Monday's and is normally the only one in her building (she is in advertising, not sure if that explains it!?). So the plan is I will drive there for 7 ish and we get to play in her office. To repeat I am always out late on a Monday as for private reasons I don't go home till 9.30 pm. This means we will have nearly 2 hours to play!
Tuesday night I am away and currently don't have any plans - if you do have a suggestion please contact me here! XX
Late extra piece of news - Thursday 20th now has a whole evening with C, she is gonna be meeting me at my hotel and has asked if I could set up a lady-friend to play with us! I will be contacting a few of my bi-female friends but if any single bi-ladies wanna contact me you might get the gig - C is very playful and adventurous. she never backs out on anything so will give it a go for sure! X

Well that was a good day!
I have found two more sites and made contact with two new couples and a lovely lady! I am so in love with the net, it makes this so much easier!
Both couples shared some stories and one even put on a nice show on their webcam!! I am always amazed how just by being honest and not pushing people can actually have such better results than trying too hard to get what you want. My secret, if it can be called that, is I don't go straight for endless chat about fucking! lol. Rather we swap stories about ordinary stuff and I only ever start the more sexy chat when they initiate it. The couple on the web-cam offered and even wanted to show off. I never asked once!! honest!!!
My latest lovely lady is a sexy 42 year old who loved my blog and isn't at all worried about me not being 'exclusive' to her. She sagely observed that no one on here is going to be exclusive unless they first have found something so wonderful its worth it. For the record, if I did find a lady I was so happy with I would go exclusive and most deff would leave my marriage for her but I don't mind if it doesn't happen. We got on so well that we have agreed to meet next week.
I am not sure if my circumstances are fully documented on here. I work 75 miles away from home and to reduce my travel expenses I stay away two nights a week. My new lady lives very close to where I stay so we may become regular fuck-buddies if we click. I hope so cos her pic is one sexy number!

Damn it! I hate weekends!! Here I am stuck at home with no excuse to get out and have some fun.
Still thankfully the wife is working and I can start trying to find some fun for next week. Unusually I don't have anything deffinate planned for next week or the week after. It always get more difficult to find swingers as the holidays approach. The last few years I have been successful but back in 2004 I went a whole month without any fun. That made me a very sad santa but I raised my game for the sake of the family.
Am now looking for additional websites to make contacts on as the latest one seems a little limited. If anyone out there has any recommendations I'd love to hear them. I don't normally use paysites but if lots of people recommend one I would give it a try.
Anyway off to do some more fishing.